A great sense of shame falls on us if it turns out that a loved one has been dishonored or disgraced. The question is then what position is taken: generosity or rejection and revenge. The guilty one brings shame on their kin by a dishonorable act. They are discovered by the dishonorer.
Exampless
• Discovery of a parent’s shame.
• Discovery of a child's dishonor.
• Discovery of a sibling's shame or dishonor.
• Discovery of dishonor in the family of one's fiancée.
• Discovery that one's wife has been violated before marriage.
• Discovery that one's wife has been violated since the marriage.
• Discovery that one's spouse has previously committed a fault.
• Discovery that one's spouse has formerly been a prostitute.
• Discovery of dishonor on the part of a lover.
• Discovery that one's mistress, formerly a prostitute, has returned to her former life.
• Discovery that one's lover is of bad character.
• Discovery that one's spouse is of bad character.